As a practising dentist with over a decade of experience treating families, I often get asked: “What’s the best way to take care of my child’s teeth?” It’s a good question. Oral health starts early, and the habits your child forms now can shape their dental health for life.
As the top-rated dentist at Walden, NY, here’s my straightforward, professional advice on how to keep children’s teeth healthy, based on years of clinical practice and what actually works at home.
Start Dental Care Early
One of the most common mistakes I see is waiting too long to start oral care. You should begin cleaning your baby’s mouth even before teeth appear. Use a clean, damp cloth to wipe their gums after feedings.
Once the first tooth erupts, usually around six months, switch to a soft-bristled baby toothbrush. Use a tiny smear of fluoride toothpaste, about the size of a grain of rice.
Brush Twice a Day, Every Day
Children should brush their teeth twice daily, morning and night. For kids aged 3–6, use a pea-sized amount of fluoride toothpaste. Supervise brushing until at least age 7 to ensure they’re not swallowing toothpaste and that they’re brushing all surfaces properly.
Electric toothbrushes with timers can help older kids brush for the recommended 2 minutes. I often suggest apps or songs to make the routine more enjoyable.
Flossing Matters, Even for Kids
If your child’s teeth are touching, it’s time to floss. This often happens around age 2 to 3. Flossing helps prevent cavities between the teeth, where toothbrush bristles can’t reach. Floss sticks can make the process easier for little hands or for parents to help.
Limit Sugar and Snacks
The truth is, the frequency of sugar intake matters more than the amount. Constant snacking, especially on sticky, sugary foods, feeds cavity-causing bacteria. Encourage water between meals and save sweet treats for mealtimes when saliva production is higher.
Watch out for hidden sugars in juice, yoghurt, and even so-called “healthy” snacks.
Regular Dental Visits from Age One
I always advise parents to bring their child for their first dental check-up by their first birthday or within six months of the first tooth appearing. These early visits build comfort, allow us to catch problems early, and give parents tailored advice.
We often spot early signs of tooth decay in toddlers who still use bottles or sippy cups too frequently, especially with milk or juice at bedtime.
Watch Out for Thumb-Sucking and Dummies
While common and usually harmless in infants, prolonged thumb-sucking or dummy (pacifier) use can affect tooth alignment and bite development. If the habit continues past age 3, speak to your dentist. We can suggest strategies to phase it out gradually.
Final Thoughts
Preventing tooth decay in children isn’t complicated, but it does require consistency. In my clinic, I’ve seen time and again that kids with healthier teeth are the ones whose parents prioritised brushing, limited sugar, and didn’t skip check-ups.
If you’re unsure whether you’re doing it right or if your child is at high risk for cavities, book a visit. I always tell parents, it’s better to be proactive than to deal with fillings later.


Dr. Ibrahim Sayeed is a licensed Dentist in the State of New York and the lead practitioner at Walden Dental NY. A graduate of the University of the Pacific School of Dentistry with post-graduate training at Brookdale Hospital Medical Center, he has extensive experience in restorative, cosmetic, and family dentistry.

